Friday, April 29, 2011

You may love the wrong person, and cry for the wrong reason. But mistake will help you find the right person for a good reason~ ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥










Nobody is perfect. Everyone have weaknesses and strength respectively. Its normal situation we will hurt to love someone. We can't feel the sweet moment for every second. Sometimes we will happy. Sumtymes we will touching. It's normal in a r/ship okeyh. Tak kan semua nye nak manis kan. Yang pahit itu la teach we how to be a better person and will improve ourselves actually.


I'm not looking a perfect guy, BUT im looking a guy who can perfect my life, guy who can guide me, make me happy forever and always by my side. Someone who always support me and bring me to the successful. Selama aku hidup 23 tahun ni, macam-macam ragam perangai lelaki yang aku kenal. Sometymes I don't know what men want from girls. Bila dah dapat tak reti nak appreciate. Bila dah hilang baru tawu nak appreciate. Its useless when you wanna appreciate after you lose them.






You may love the wrong person, and cry for the wrong reason......



First, kita tak tawu siape yang ALLAH kirimkan kepade kita untuk menjaga kita di dunia and akhirat before we getting married. We meet many people in different way. Aku tak tawu dah berape kali aku couple sebenar nye (ceyt!! ayat macam player sangat). Haahahaha. Ye la, aku start couple 10 yrs a go. Mase tu kanak-kanak rebena lagi. That time, love is called as "love monkey". Saje nak suka-suka. heeheee. Tapi bila aku dah 8teen, aku rase aku dah cukup matured to have serious relationship.


We just plan, BUT ALLAH will decide everything. ALLAH already planned everything. Ajal, maut, jodoh, pertemuan semua di tangan ALLAH. If I meet someone who love me, I will love him too. Tapi jodoh kami tak panjang. itu la di namakan, "you may love the wrong person and crying for the wrong reason". Before meet Mr Right, I meet Mr Wrong. Past teach me how to be careful and love in the correct way :)




But mistake will help you to find a right person for a good reason ...



The past will help you to meet the right person who is really love you coz the way you are. Whatever happen, you shud look yourself first. If you wanna a good person, you shud have a good personality. If you bad, you will get bad too.


I learned many things from the past. Aku tak salah kan sesape pon bila aku clash. I try to look myself, muhasabah diri aku. Ape kekurangan aku sampai kan si dia boleh mencari orang lain. May be aku tak cukup sempurna buat dye. From that, I try to improve myself to being a positive thinking person. Kalau aku menangis air mata darah sekali pon, I can't turn back the time. But, I shud look forward to get a better life in a future.


Aku tak kisah kalau orang lain nak anggap aku ni bodoh ke, hape ke sebab aku simply trust other people. Actually not!. I will take time to trust people. Once I really know someone, i put my trust to them. It's up to them whether want to keep my trust and faithful or not. Aku bukan pecaye 100% okeyh! Tapi kalau dah couple smpai 4,5 tahun, takkan still nak buruk sangka kan. Bila aku pecaye, orang tu tipu aku kaw-kaw. Takpe-takpe. Aku redha and pasrah.


Aku nak balas dendam and benci kau pon tak gune. Sebab Allah tu maha adil. Let ALLAH reply everything. I have no right to do so. Aku maafkan semua yang kau dah buat, and I don't want you to come back in my life and said "I still love you". Deymm! I hate this!. Once kau dah pergi, jangan nak datang balik kat aku sebab aku memang dah lame maafkan kau. And I want to apologizes to all people yang pernah aku sakit kan haty korang. Sometymes aku tak sedar yang aku buat kau sakit haty. Sorry! Sedangkan ALLAH mengampun kan manusia, tak kan aku yang hina ni nak sombong kan.


Ok la. Have a nice day readers!
Bai!!

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Make your Ex regret losing you and tips to forget your ex yang macam hareemmmm!!~

Salam readers!
Here some tips to make your ex regret leaving you and also the tips how to forget your ex.


Normal situation, bila kita ditinggal kan. First thing yang kita akan buat is hold your phone and text or calling your ex. Ask why your ex leaving you. Crying crying crying and begging your ex. It look like you tergila-gila kan dye but dye langsung tak pandang and appreciate you. Entah-entah meset you pon dye tak bace. Deym pathetic rite?


Sometimes..Kita jangan terlalu pikirkan orang lain. Just think about yourself first before you think about others. Don't follow your heart. Coz heart is not bring you to the correct way. When you follow your heart, it will worse and you will more more more hurting. Bila kita buat sesuatu ikutkan hati kita, keadaan akan jadi lebih parah. So, use your mind to taking the correct action.





Don't do this! Kalau kau buat cam ni. Sampai kapan pon kau tak kan dapat lupakan dye!


First of all, don't push your ex to explain to you why you break up. Don't do this. Sometimes dye sangat rimas dengan anda dan rase macam nak lempang laju-laju je. Kalau rase diri kau tak nak kene lempang, jangan persoalkan kenape dye tinggalkan kau, kenape dye tak pilih kau. NO NEED! If you want the explanaation, may be you will be hurting. Before you hurt, let ur ex hurt first. Kahkahkahkahkahkah. Gile kejam kan. Tapi ni adalah the best way to forget your ex.


The other best way is remain silent. Don't text, Don't keep calling. Biarkan saje. When you do like this, si dye yang akan rase kehilangan sebab dye expect kita yang akan begging and crying kat dye. In fact NO!. We are strong girls. Let your ex feel like they lose something that really valuable. Biar dye rasa menyesal and baru nak menghargai korang. If they begging you untuk start the new life again, You just say NO WAY! What for kau nak terima orang yang campak kau jauh-jauh. Useless!!






let he regret coz lose you NOT you regret coz he leave you!!



If he hurt your feeling, why you still make him as a hero, make him as a priority? why you need so bad wif him? why why why? The best way is hurt them back. Sometimes we shud stop to be a kind person and kene jaga hati kita. Tak kan kita je yang nak kene jaga hati dia. Its not fair rite? Yeaaahhhh *devil !!



"If you wanna go, just go and don't come back. I don't need anyone who doesn't need me" < ---- semat kan dalam hati korang ayat yang power ni. This is true haaa. Past is past, enuf is enuf. For me, what for we shud look back coz the past is not our future. The past is just teach me how to be a better person and more careful. I never look back and never give opportunity to my ex. Aku tak perlukan orang yang tak pernah appreciate aku and doesn't need me. No reason for me to wait this kind of people. It just wasting my time! I have a lot of thing to think. Once kau dah tinggalkan aku, tak perlu kot nak kembali. Its look like kau kutip balik sampah yang kau dah buang kat tong sampah. Euuuwwwwww.. Disgusting! This is just my opinion.



"Dont make someone as priority if they just make you as an option". I already through this situation. I'm really disappointed when people who really I love make me as an option. Your priority is people who really care of you such as your family, bff and so on that never stop support you. Believe me, this is rubbish. No need to make him as priority when he make you as an option. You are not the toy where your heart can trade. NO! Think bout yourself before you want to think bout other people.



Even you feel like you hate your ex, Don't bad-mouth them. It just make you feel worse. Even you think your ex is really stupid coz leave you, you SHUD NOT be a stupid too like maki-maki or post the bad thing at facebook and so forth. It look like you very childish. Don't do that okeyh! Just silent. If you want to talk, talk nicely so that he will respect you and appreciate you even you all already break up.



To make your ex regret when leaving you is you accept it and move on. Kita hidup bukan untuk bercinta pada yang tak sudi tetapi mencari cinta yang suci. Bila kau move on, dye akan menyesal sebab kau happy bila break up. Itu lumrah orang bercouple. Bila clash, pemikiran dorang is nak tengok ex dorang suffer. When you happy, your ex will regret!


Everthing happen for a reason. Jangan lah kita salah kan takdir ALLAH. Kalau dye bukan jodoh kita, kita pasrah and redha saje laaa. May be you will get the best person who really love you and you all meant to be. Before you meet Mr right, you meet the wrong person. Trust me, semua yang jadi ade hikmah nye. Be strong girl!



You just say these two word to your ex. That is....

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Im sorry good bye. Ala, macam lagu Kris Dayanti yang ni
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Aku tawu lagu ni pon after Eka AF9 nyanyi kat konsert ke 2. Best jugak lagu ni -.-






Thanx for reading this entry.
Bai!



(*.^)v

Thursday, April 14, 2011

Kau ingat kau tuuu cantek sangat ke??!!!!!!!

Salam readers yang aku hormati.

How are you?? Hope korang semua sihat okeyh!. Waaahhh. Entry aku ni macam nak cari pasal lak kan. Title bikin gempak saje. Macam tak puas hati dengan orang. Memang pon aku tak puas hati. Tuuuu yang aku post. Sesape yang rase diri dia tu cantek, meh bace. Tak kira la perempuan ke, laki ke.


Aku penah present pasal "the true meaning of beauty" dekat class BEL499 (Communication Skill). Aku tertarik dengan tajuk ni and aku ade buat sikit research before presenting to my lecturer. Actually aku nak cakap pasal maksud sebenar kecantikan tuu je. Bukan aku tak puas hati dengan orang cantek pon. Bhaaahaahahahahaha~


Beauty is subjective. Different people have different opinion. Kadang-kadang kita rase orang tu cantek, tapi di mata orang lain hanya nampak biase sahaja. Means lain orang lain perception nye. Ye laaa, if all people have the same taste, dok berebut pade bende yang same je la kan. Kesian laaa dekat orang yang tak dipilih tu. Dats why beauty is subjective.


In my opinion, the true meaning of beauty is "sedap mata memandang". Maksudnya, bila aku tengok orang tu, rase sejuk je hati. Biar la tak sekacak Asyraff Muslim pon, tapi aku rase tenang je tengok muka dia tu. Allah jadikan manusia ni semua nya cantek. So, bersyukur la wahai manusia-manusia sekalian. Dah tua nanti, semua kedut-kedut jugak kan. Physical beauty tak kekal pon.


Otherwise, I can describe beauty based on attitude. When we have a good attitude, people will respect us and glad when frends with us. Perangai seseorang itu menunjuk kecantikan dia sebenarnya. Tak guna kau ade paras rupa yang cantek, tapi hati kau busuk and perangai entah ape-ape. Nobody is perfect kan. Tapi kita boleh improve ourselves to be a better person. Tak semua orang suka dengan apa yang kita buat. Hard for me to give satisfaction to all people at the same time. Tapi aku tetap cuba yang terbaik untuk orang-orang yang aku sayang. Yang paling penting, we shud respect each other especially orang yang lagi tua dari kita. Bila kita hormat orang lain, orang akan senang dengan kita and they will respect you too. Kesimpulannya, kecantikan akan terselah bila hati kita baik. Tak kira la kita ni cantek ke tak, kalau hati dah baik, orang lain tetap akan cakap kita cantek.



Next, kecantikan yang kekal lame is pegangan agama seseorang. Islam itu indah kan. Aku bersyukur sebab dilahirkan sebagai orang Islam. Aku tawu yang aku ni tak ade laa baik mane pon. tapi aku mencuba untuk istiqamah kepada ALLAH. Aku suke je tengok orang pakai tudung labuh. Nampak ayu jee. Tapi kalau kita yang da bertudung ni pon cantek jugak. Sebab kita dah tutup satu aurat kita. Hurmmmm. Mudah-mudahhan semua orang mendapat petunjuk ALLAH and sentiasa dilindungi. Amin :)



Lastly, education. Kenape aku cakap orang yg educated ni nampak cantek?? Sebab nye org yang educated ni berilmu, they know how to carry themselves in front other people. They have high confidence. Bila kita ade keyakinan yang tinggi, orang lain akan pandang kita and say "Wowww!!!!". Biase nye orang yang educated ni memang nampak cantek la. Teeeheeee~



If someone have inner and physical beauty, its bonus laaa. Bonus sebab dye ade paras rupa yang cantek and hati yang mulia. Bertuah laaa tuan punya badan kan. In a conclusion. beauty is subjective. Masing-masing ade pendapat masing-masing. Bagi aku, kecantekan tuu akan terselah dengan akhlak yang mulia :)








Pade mate aku, Farah ni sangat cantek. Lagi-lagi bila bertudung. Aku mmg admire gila la kat Farah ni.









Yang ni pon comel je. Sukee tgk Heliza :)






Last but not least....



My idol. She is really beautiful. I love to listen her talk.



P/S:Kau rase kau tuu cantek ke? Aku rase aku cantek sebab aku bersyukur dengan semua yang ALLAH bagi. Aku ade hidung, mata, mulut and semua la. Sempurna tubuh badan tu da kira cantek kan. Cuma nak nampak lagi indah, hiasi keperibadian korang dengan akhlak yang terpuji!


P/S/S:Sekacak mana pon engkau, secantek mane pon engkau. Kalau kau tu player, dok mainkan perasaan orang memang tak cantek langsung. Tak suke okeyh. Mempergunakan kecantikan tu. Tak baik kot wat cam tuu, tawu la kau tu gojes. Petik sekali ramai yang nak kan. Haahahahaha. Murah kan cinta kau tuu. Boleh bagi cinta kat sesapa sahaja dalam masa yang singkat. What goes around comes around. Once kau dah mainkan perasaan orang, nanti kau pulak yang akan dipermainkan. Common laaaa. Kita da cukup matang untuk pikir. What for kau couple kalau nak main-main. Baik laaa kau single. Lagi hot! (ni untuk orang-orang yang bajet hot la) Bhaahahahahahhahahahahaha .......



Ok. Sekian~

:)

Sunday, April 10, 2011

Give & Take

Salam you alllssss.


How was your day? Mine biase-biase saje. Weekend kali ni aku tak kuar pon. Sebab macam takde mood nak hangout. Yesterday aku keluar lepak-lepak wif my BFF that is Siti and Umay. Lame gile tak jumpe dorang. Dapat lepak kejap pon da lepas rindu jugak.


Okey laaaa. Entry kali ni aku nak cite pasal give and take. Dalam hidup kita ni, kene la balance. Kalo ade duit masuk, mesti ade duit keluar. Kalau ade yang memberi, Kita menerima. Cewaaahhh. Mentang-mentang la aku ni student account. Dok sibuk cakap balance-balance. Padehal dalam exam aku tak penah nye nak balance.

Aku post entry aku ni khas untuk orang yang suke memberi tetapi merungut pade hakikat nya. and kepade orang yang selalu meminta-minta and susah untuk memberi. Ade paham tak? First of all, Orang yang selalu memberi sesuatu kepade ORANG YANG PALING DYE SAYANG, konon nye la kan. Tapi pade hakikat nye merungut. Dok merungut kat orang lain yang dye habis beribu-riban untuk girlfrend tecinta. Nampak sangat tak ikhlas kan. Dah tawu tak mampu, buat la cara tak mampu.

Then pasal orang yang selalu meminta-minta sesuatu dari orang lain sedang kan dye tidak penah memberi apa-apa kepade orang lain. Maksudnya dye just take and never give. Kesian pulak aku tengok orang macam ni. tak patut dye macam ni. Boleh buat orang lain tak puas hati kan.


Kita hidup ni bermasyarakat. Kene saling bantu membantu. Susah sama-sama and senang sama-sama. Baru la hidup kita bahagia kan. Kene ade Give and Take dalam hubungan sesama manusia. Ini bukan khas untuk orang bercouple je. Tapi, ianya general. Untuk family, jiran and rakan-rakan.

Ok bai!