Tips Persiapan Majlis Perkahwinan

Dear Readers,

Today just nak share few tips untuk budget wedding planning without using wedding planner services. Since aku selalu menitikberatkan pasal duit and my husband is event planner, here nak share dengan future bride/groom untuk list few things before decide to choose it. Tips untuk paling jimat dalam majlis perkahwinan is combined dua pihak menjadi satu majlis resepsi sahaja. My husband stayed at Usj and aku stay kat shah alam. Memang rumah kami 10 minit je pon. So, we decided untuk buat majlis sekali sahaja. Jimat banyak dahtu. I suggest untuk bakal pengantin yang pasangan korang stay dekat je, tak payah la susah payah spent untuk buat 2 majlis. Meriah sangat dah kalau buat satu kali majlis je. Tak payah spend duit banyak, tak payah la rasa penat dua kali.

First of all you should have your own diary to make checklist such as catering, andaman, baju nikah, kek kawin, kad kawin, doorgift, emcee, PA system, dan lain-lain lagi. Tempoh untuk aku prepare semua ni is 11 bulan sebab almost 1 year kami mengikat tali pertunangan. Untuk catering memang my dad dah decide untuk choose his friend punya catering. Memang sedap and sure murah sebab harga kawan-kawan (special price). 

Settle bab catering, boleh pergi ke bab baju nikah. Baju nikah aku beli kat Bandung sebab kat sane lace sangat murah. I bought lace and lining, and also kain untuk baju melayu husband is only Rp900,000 (RM300). Then aku hantar kat tailor biasa yang aku selalu deal, aunty tu just amek RM130 untuk upah jahit. Baju melayu husband pulak RM100 untuk upah jahit. So total for both outfit nikah is RM530.00. Murah kan.

Shawl tu hantar jahit tepi kat kawan and it's free. (kain shawl beli kat jakel, material chiffon). Hand flower tu hand made by my aunty. My cousin sponsored daisy fresh from Cameron. Mekup nikah yang awesome touch by my pretty friend (ig: @muabyhajjaakhir)

Our outfit just simple. Veil tu arwah mak dah buat siap-siap (memang sangat budget)

This is my big family. Aku sponsor kain baju depa semua ni. Baju depa semua ni is only Rp 2,000,000 = RM600 (87meter) . Baju ni pon shopping kat Bandung. Untuk Tips shopping kat Bandung boleh tengok previous post.

Untuk andaman pulak, Me and my husband list few bridal and we choose Mim Collection Klang because tu yang paling murah, baju cantek and mekup pon cantek. Untuk bajet yang below RM4000 boleh dah try pegi kat Mim Collection Klang. Owner dia nama kak Ayu, I suka mekup dia sebab cantek, kemas, yang penting sekejap je dia makeup kan. Dia sampai kat umah jam 11:00 am (sebab pagi tu dia makeup client lain) and settle pakaikan shawl and veil semua pada jam 12:45pm. Serious cepat wehhh.

Ni Outfit untuk reception kami. Aku choose cream color and lace gold sebab color tu je sesuai dengan husband aku. So kene la ikut apa yang sesuai dengan dia. Sebab aku yang sedia putih and cantek ni pakai apa pon tetap cantek. Ehhh! 

Yang ni la hasil makeup Kak Ayu yang sangat pantas, teliti and hasil dia awesome beb! Sebelah tu my maid of honor a.k.a yang makeup kan aku time nikah. Oh ya, mekup nikah aku, dia charge RM200 je sebab harga kawan-kawan. (hasil sentuhan makeup @muabyhajjaakhir boleh refer gambar yang post previously)

Next, pasal kad kawin pulak. Actually kad kawin kami ni my husband yang design sendiri and that is my instruction. Memang dia sangat penyabar sebab melayan kerenah wife dia yang asyik nak tukar-tukar design. After di persetujui kedua belah pihak, kami proceed untuk printing card. Pergi survey kat Seksyen 2 and Plaza shah alam. Yang murah and worth kat Plaza Shah Alam tu. RM1 (1 pc) and card shining-shining. Free bunting gituw. So kene spent RM500 untuk card, kami buat 500 pcs for 1200 guest.

Ini lah hasil design husband sendiri. Sangat berpuas hati sebab ni memang limited edition.

Other things is Kek Kawin. Yeayhhh. Dah banyak survey kat orang jual kek online, kat mak sedara sendiri. Mostly is RM300 and above for 2 tier wedding cake. Then I terjumpa yang murah ni. RM120 only. Murah wehhh. Terus order dengan baker ni. Aku share gambar contoh yang azlita punya wedding cake, hasilnya memang sama wehhhh. Cantek dan sedap. Sangat berpuas hati.

Boleh nampak tak pelamin kami yang meriah tu, Thanks again kak Ayu sebab service tiptop. Muah!

Ini la hasil kek bajet tu. Even murah, Kek nya cantek dan sedap. Cup Cake tu di sponsor oleh my aunty. Thanks Busu!

Checklist lain is doorgift. Untuk doorgift ni memang aku and family list few things. At last we choose moist chocolate cake from Arisa. Sesiapa yang nak murah, boleh beli direct kat kilang dia (kedai kek Harissa, near Geno Hotel Shah Alam). Kek ni RM1.50 (Size sederhana), very worth sebab murah. Then aku order sticker online saje. Sticker RM0.10 untuk 1 pc.

untuk sticker ni korang boleh pilih design and font yang sedia ada.

Actually my family and husband's family banyak support and sponsor dari segi doorgift, side dish and few things la. Untuk photo booth pulak dapat sponsor dari my prudential insurance agent a.k.a kakak angkat aku. Thank you so much kakak. Terharu sebab photobooth exclusive tu nampak mewah.

Sponsored by my kakak angkat yang jauh dari Johor

Untuk emcee and PA System, my husband yang handle. Dia amek dengan kawan dia, so dapatlah murah. Untuk photographer pon ambil dengan kawan husband since husband kenal ramai orang yang buat event ni. Photographer kami charge RM1500 sahaja sebab harga kawan-kawan. Pakej photography include nikah, reception and outdoor photoshoot. Few month lepas tu terus dapat album, Frame gambar besar and pendrive. So worth beb!

Overall, cost yang kami spent untuk wedding kami is very low. Kenapa perlu membazir kan?

My advice to all bride/groom to be, please save your money. Yang murah tak bermaksud wedding you all tak grand, tak curlass. Siapa cakap bajet yang sedikit, hasil dia tak gempak? For me, let we spent less and hasil nya is more and nampak exclusive. Sesiapa yang nak jimat duit tu boleh follow tips ni. Yang penting is persediaan lepas kawin. 

Till then, thank for reading.

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Chemical Pregnancy

Hi readers,

I just wanna share some info about chemical pregnancy. One month ago I through this situation. What is chemical pregnancy? Chemical pregnancy ni means you have early miscarriage which is occur less than 5 weeks. The sign you face this situation is with urine test at home. Few days after you check upt and show the double line, suddenly your period is come. I make the test when 3 days period late. Just saja nak check sebab 10 days before expected day of period, aku mengalami cramp kat perut. It was like senggugut, but more heavy, sakit sangat compared to period pain.

After check upt on early morning, Jam 5am, gigih ni nak bangun check. Boleh pulak pagi tu husband terjaga and cari wife dia sebab  takda kat sebelah. Tengah tunggu result upt, tetiba husband panggil and tanya kenapa lama sangat kat toilet. The result show very faint line. Masa tu terkejut sangat sebab memang nampak double line. First time try before period delayed dulu show the negative result. But this time show faint line means weak positive.

After solat subuh, tunjuk upt kat husband. That time memang rasa happy gile even tak confirm yang aku pregnant. Then husband cakap just wait one week if tak period, pegi klinik untuk check. That time memang cramp lagi perut. Rasa sakit macam darah tak keluar-keluar (worst than period pain)

After 3 days check upt, I am bleeding (heavy bleeding similar with menstrual blood). Masa keluar darah tu memang tak tawu pasal chemical preganancy pon. Dalam hati ni, "ohhh, maybe false positive kot. tak pregnant". Just pelik sebab darah "period" yang keluar tu sangat banyak and tak bagi hint nak datang bulan pon. Biasanya kalau period datang tu, darah coklat-coklat je keluar for the first and second day. Tapi, time tu darah tetiba keluar banyak. Malam before bleeding tu memang perut cramp tahap meksimum. Ajak husband pegi klinik. Then doctor cakap tak boleh scan because too early. Need to come back after 2 weeks if period not come.

Elok je lepas pegi klinik, esoknya bleeding. Memang time tu mati-mati ingatkan darah period yang hanya lambat seminggu. Esoknya I fly to Perth. So, I tak sempat nak google meaning of faint line and tak sempat pergi klinik. One week holiday at Perth and memang period macam biasa datang one week. After back from Perth, baru ade masa nak google meaning of faint line kat upt tu.

Then I found about CHEMICAL PREGNANCY. This is the exactly same situation that I through. After read all about the sign, definition and research about chemical pregnancy, terus whatsapp husband. Ok, baru tawu yang sebenarnya aku ni pregnant and gugur (3-4 weeks macamtu)

By the way, thank you Allah for giving me some experience to be mummy to be. Experience pregnant which is cramp for everyday until bleeding, rasa sakit kat punggung. Thanks for all of this experience. Just an awesome experience. Ok, let's we try again husband! I feel blessed having the best husband for me, who always be with me upside down.

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RESEPI TELUR BURUNG PUYUH GORENG CILI

Assalamualaikum.

Hari ini tiba-tiba ade mood rajin nak share resepi faveret Cik Wani. But this is the simple dish for lunch. Untuk yang gemarkan something yang simple tapi mengenyangkan.

Bahan-Bahan:

• Bawang Merah
• Bawang Putih
• Cili Merah
• Bendi
• Telur Burung Puyuh
• Garam
• Gula
• Kicap

Cara-Cara:

1. Rebus telur burung puyuh, kemudian goreng terlebih dahulu dan ketepikan.

2. Blend bawang merah, bawah putih dan cili merah. Kalau nak pedas korang boleh letak sedikit cili padi.

3. Tumis bahan yang di blend sebentar tadi. Letak sedikit garam, gula dan kicap. Kemudian tambah sedikit air. Bila dah nampak macam garing, masukkan telur burung puyuh yang telah digoreng. (Note: jangan letak banyak gula, nanti manis sangat)

4. Lastly masukkan bendi yang di potong kecil ke dalam kuali. Kacau sehingga rata

Siapppppp!! Cuba lahh. Senangkan? makan lauk ni dengan nasi panas-panas je pon dah sedap and awesome okeyyyy. 

inilah hasil air tangan Cik Wani yang paling senang. Masak pon ikut suka hati

Selamat Mencuba. Thank You for reading my blog journey.

-The End-

Wedding Preparation Part 1

Assalamualaikum.

Bercerita tentang persiapan perkahwinan aku. Few month to my big day, but I still clumsy, tak tahu nak start dari mana. Kain family, kain nikah, kain pengapit, semuanya tak beli lagi. Tanya orang lain harga kat Jakel berapa, ramai yang cakap mahal. Then my aunty ajak pergi Bandung untuk shopping kain for my wedding. Then I agreed since the price here is so expensive. Penginapan dan makan di sana semuanya di taja oleh makcik aku. Aku just bayar duit teket flight RM300 only and duit shopping Rp3 juta bersamaan RM900. hahahaha. Cukup ke? tentulah cukup sayang-sayang sekalian.

Here I wanna share with you guys about my journey at Bandung for 3D2N. I stay at 3 star hotel, hotel baru tu, nama dia De Batara Hotel located at Cihampelas walk. I tak sure berapa rupiah untuk accommodation kat sane sebab bukan aku yang bayar. Breakfast memang dekat hotel, cuma lunch and dinner kene makan kat luar.

First day at Bandung:

Arrived at Bandung Airport at 1:30pm (waktu Malaysia 2:30pm). Sampai sane je tetiba hujan lebat. Alhamdulillah kat Bandung sejuk since kat Malaysia sangat-sangat panas. Ohhh ye, aku naik flight Malindo sebab include luggage and meals. Sampai je kat Bandung, ada Pak Supir sambut ketibaan kami. Pak Supir ni memang dah lama berkhidmat dengan Makcik I since Makcik I always datang Bandung. So, tak jadi masalah untuk kami bergerak ke hulu hilir dengan Pak Supir. Pak Supir hantar kami ke hotel untuk check in. Even hotel 3 star, bilik sangat luas. 2 katil king. Sure bride to be tido sorang kat katil besar tu. 

After check in, kami pergi lunch kat restoran nasi padang. Perghhh. Makanannya enak bangat. Tak mengecewakan langsung. Sambal hijau paling win. Lunch pon dah lewat petang, then kami terus pegi ke Copo untuk shopping kain sulam. Sakan la makcik-makcik aku shopping. Seriously sangat murah okeyh. Sepasang kain sulam worth RM30 only. Copo tu jauh sikit dari Cihampelas. So, ambil masa lama sikit sampai lah ke malam kami menapak kat situ. On the way nak balik hotel, kami tapau Murtabak telur. Seriously, sangat sedap. Balik hotel terus mandi and dinner makan murtabak tu.

Ni murtabak telur Bandung. Sampai sekarang aku terbayang-bayang nak makan.

Second day at Bandung:

Early morning kami breakfast kat hotel, makanan dia sedap-sedap belaka. After breakfast, at 9:00 am kami terus gerak ke Pasar Baru untuk shopping kain. Misi mencari kain telah bermula. Kami terus ke D'Boutique (which is Jakel Bandung), macam-macam material, macam-macam colour, but the price sangat-sangat murah compared to Jakel. Aku bawak ramai perunding imej, so, banyaklah argument. Setelah lama berfikir, I choose kain untuk my family first. Setel Kain family, teruskan untuk kain pengapit. Material kain tu tak sure nama apa tapi bukan chiffon or satin la. Aku beli 87 meter untuk my whole family and 2 pengapit is Rp2 juta equal to RM600 only. Murah tak? Sure la murah sayang hoii.

Ni semua perunding Imej I. Thank you everyone!

This time dah start pening nak pilih color apa untuk my family side. 

After decide color, kene pulak list kan semua nama family and ukuran untuk depa senang nak potong. 

Alhamdulillah. Semuanya mudah dan murah. After settle shopping kain untuk family, kami pergi lunch sekejap kat food court Pasar Baru.

Ayam bakar panas yang sedap giler!

Ni tempat yang kami pilih. Just kiosk kecil. Tapi makanan dia sumpah sedap gila.

Ikan Bakar.

Sup Tulang.

Settle lunch yang superb sedap, Kami teruskan perjalanan untuk mencari telekung. Bagi chance la kat depa nak beli souvenir untuk family depa. Lama jugak la menapak nak mencari telekung Siti Khadijah. Then at last baru pergi cari kain nikah aku. I'm not sure beli kain nikah tu kat mana. Quite lama jugak nak make decision untuk pilih lace mana, theme colour ape. Hahahaha. Adoiii. Serious rambang mata. Setelah mendapat persetujuan semua orang, maka aku memilih apa yang semua orang setuju. Kain tu haruslah rahsia. Will reveal it on my solemnization day. I buy full set untuk kain lining + Lace + Kain baju melayu Lelaki is only Rp1 juta equal to RM300 . Haaaaa? Terkejut jugak laaaa sebab dapat murah. Dah la murah, dapat extra 1 meter lace lagi. Syukur.

Bila tanya kawan-kawan yang beli kain nikah dekat Jakel, ramai cakap depa spend more than Rm1k just for sepasang baju nikah. Aku pulak boleh spent below RM1k for sepasang kain nikah, kain family dan kain untuk pengapit.

Kitorang stay kat Pasar Baru tu dari jam 9:00am sampai la kedai tutup jam 6:00pm. After settle shopping macam-macam, kami teruskan perjalanan ke Toko 3 untuk shopping jeans. Time ni aku just beli Jeans for my fiance, jeans untuk diri sendiri taknak plak beli. Sabar jelaaaa. Jeans kat Toko 3 tu semuanya original and harga pon murah.

After shopping jeans, Kami shoot ke Rumah Mode. Rumah Mode ni lebih kurang macam JPO. Mitsui Outlet. Depa jual barang branded, but still murah dari Malaysia. Time ni taknak shopping dah sebab dah pokai. So, Kitorang dinner je la kat situ sambil merehatkan badan yang shopping seharian.

This is Rumah Mode. Banyak tempat cantek untuk amek gambar.

Last Day at Bandung:

Breakfast dekat hotel as usual at 7:30 am. Then terus naik balik untuk packing barang since nak check out. At 10:00 am, Pak Supir amek kami di Hotel dan bawak kitorang lunch nasi padang again. After lunch terus ke Kartika Sari untuk shopping brownies. Brownies kat sana sedap dan murah. Makanya, shopping banyak-banyak untuk bagi dekat family and my bestfriend. Then terus ke airport untuk check in. Flight timing kami 2:30pm, but delayed. So kene tunggu sejam jugak la. Sampai kat Malaysia around 6:20pm. Alhamdulillah safely arrived at home sweet home.

Thank you to Makcik yang sponsor too many things there. Makanan kat sana semuanya sedap, tak mengecewakan langsung. Thanks Pak Supir yang melayan kerenah kami sepanjang 3 hari di sana. Ohhhh please, rasa nak repeat pergi Bandung. Lepas ni boleh pergi dengan suami :)

For those yang nak kawin, I suggest you guys shopping semua kain kat Bandung. Tak kan rugi okeyh. Sambil shopping, sambil dapat makan sedap. Sekian, Terima Kasih. Doakan perjalanan persiapan untuk perkahwinan aku berjalan dengan lancar.

-The End-

I am Drama Queen

Assalamualikum.

Drama sekrang ni semua tajuk nak gah, semua nya di adaptasi dari novel. Imaginasi penulis novel memang nampak indah belaka and sangatlah dramatik dan pelbagai emosi. Kita selalu cakap, drama tu semuanya indah, mana ade lelaki sempurna macamtu, mane ada perempuan macam bidadari tu. Iya, memang benar tiada yang sempurna dalam kehidupan kita. Tapi, ape yang ditulis oleh penulis novel hanyalah untuk memberi semangat kepada lelaki atau perempuan untuk menjadi yang terbaik buat pasangan. 

Ramai yang condemn drama melayu kita sebab di akhir jalan cerita mestilah happy ending, kalau tak happy, meninggal lah, masuk penjara la. blaa blaa blaaa. For me, jalan cerita hidup kita, kita yang tentukan, kita yang ciptakan. Jika kita mahu kehidupan yang indah, maka kita ciptakan jalan cerita hidup kita supaya nampak indah walaupun kadang-kadang ada yang agak pahit. 

Frankly speaking, I am a drama lover. Memang benar aku suka seorang lelaki yang baik, sentiasa ada dengan aku, yang penyayang, yang letak kan aku sebagai keutamaan, yang memujuk pabila aku merajuk, yang sabar dengan perangai aku, yang setia. Ya, memang benar tiada lelaki yang sempurna, but you as a guy, you can try your best. I won't blame you, but it quite disappointed bila dekat tapi jauh. Renungkanlah.

Appreciate the person who love you before she/he gone.

-The End-

Ambition

Assalamualaikum.

I just wanna share about my big dream orelse we call ambition. The famous question in the school is "what is your ambition?" . Actually this is so hard to answer. The cliche answer from student is doctor, dentist, police, teacher, flight attendant, engineer, blaaa blaaa blaaa. But the accountant career is not familiar among the student right? Even me not know what is accountant.

Masa kecik-kecik cikgu tanya "wani, ape cita-cita awak?". Tahun pertama "saya nak jadi doktor" . Tahun kedua "saya nak jadi pramugari". Tahun ketiga "saya nak jadi cikgu". Ehhhh. Macam banyak pulak cita-cita Cik Wani ni kan. Tak tetap pendirian sungguh. When I'm in secondary school, I still can't see what I want to be one fine day, still in doubtful, still in confusing. Then when I'm in form 4 I terpaksa taking accounting course since my science is not so good. So, namanya pasrah sebab aku memang tak suke accounting. But in class I'm always get the high score in subject prinsip account, math and add math. Makanya menjadi kesayangan cikgu-cikgu sebab selalu dapat markah tinggi and top 5 in my class. 

I never expect I will continue my study in accounting course. After finished my SPM, I got A1 in prinsip account and math, makanya I apply accounting course as first choice. Alhamdulillah dapat sambung study di UiTM taking diploma in accounting and also further my degree in accounting. Never expect I reached this stage because I have no heart towards accounting.

Nak dijadikan cerita, apa yang kita tak pernah sangka, itulah yang kita dapat sekarang. Tidak pernah jatuh cinta dengan sesuatu, tapi kini ianya menjadi kekasih kita. Siapa sangka kan.

Biarlah tak dapat jadi penyanyi, pengacara ke, pramugari ke. Janji sekarang aku bahagia jadi accounting celebrity. Wahhh gituuu. Kau hado? Hahahaha. Sebenarnya kecik-kecik memang bercita-cita nak jadi pramugari. Sebab ape? Because I love to see the pretty women at the airport yang jalan catwalk and semua orang pandang. Plus can travel around the world. Bila dah matang sikit, dah belajar apa itu aurat, dah faham ape ertinya kerjaya, maka terpaksa buang cita-cita tu.  Aku juga memang minat menyanyi, selalu berangan nak jadi singer sebab memang hobi menyanyi tak kira masa dan tempat. Tapi mak dah warning awal-awal jangan berangan nak jadi penyanyi. Ok fine!

Whatever your career now, even high class or takde class, you should set the goal to achieve much better position so that it will inspired you to have the best career and you will happy with what you do. Yang paling penting rezeki yang kita dapat tu halal dan berkat. In shaa Allah akan sentiasa cukup walaupon sedikit.

Why I love account? Accounting is seriously kill me when I was study about that. Because always want me to make it balance. Asset equal to Liability, Debit equal to Credit and everything need to balance. I love numbering, that's why I can fall in love with this killer course. In life, we need to balance everything. The word I want to share is "How you saving your money is more worth than what amount of salary you earn" . Even your salary is not so high, you know how to save it, this is so worth than the high salary and high expenses. Tak kisah la gaji hangpa berapa, janji hang tawu nak manage duit.

This is the most reason why I love accounting. I learn to spend less and save more. Oh ya, about my wedding financial planning budget, I manage it for me and my fiance. Before we decide, I will prepare the budget to him. Then I akan cakap dengan dia, we choose the best and lower price but still give the best service to us. Alhamdulillah, semua preparation untuk wedding ni kami berdua usaha sama-sama.

Whatever you want to do, you need to decided first. Plan, organizing, and implementing. I just wanna say, enjoy your work, enjoy what you do, do what you love. Till then. Have a nice day people. 

-The End-

My Career Path

Assalamualikum.

Every women need the best career to survive in this high cost life. Tak kisah lah ape pon kerjaya depa, depa tetap bekerja keras untuk diri sendiri and family. I just wanna share with you about my career journey after I finished my study. On 2012, after finished my degree, aku menganggur few month sebab belom ada rezeki yang baik untuk aku. 

Suddenly my sister offered me to become temporary teacher at school where she teach. So, aku pon apply and dapat jadi cikgu sementara mengajar student form 1 and form 2. That time hanya tuhan sahaja yang tahu betapa sukarnya aku nak handle student yang kelas belakang ni. Dengan perangai masing-masing degil, taknak dengar cakap aku. But I make it simple, with this kind of student, we need to treat them nicely. sebab depa suka bile kita baik and bercerita for get attention from them. When my last day, pengetua sekolah ask me to further my teaching untuk ganti cikgu lain. But I said I can't because I already get the other offer job. Sedih jugak tinggalkan student I yang baik-baik tu. 

Then I try to work in account department which I got offered from Mydin HQ as account assistant. The salary actually not high, but I can't demand since I have no experienced. So, aku pon gagahkan diri untuk kerja sebagai account assistant. The environment quite ok, officemate pon ramai yang fresh graduate. Cuma yang tak best hari-hari hadap jem, pergi dan balik kerja. Stressssssss oooo. Kerja baru sebulan, ilmu di dada pon tak cukup lagi, pengalaman pon masih zero, I got another offered from much stable company.

So, I decided to resign and accept new challenge in retail which is totally different with my study background. I accept because they offered me quite high salary and the place quite ok sebab tak hadap jem hari-hari. I worked at Aeon Bukit Tinggi as Group Leader. Masa mula-mula kerja tu rasa tak suka sebab kene korbankan weekend, public holiday, work in shift. But lama-lama dah biasa dengan environment macamtu. Kawan-kawan pon baik, manager pon supportive and helpful. But my mum not really like my career because I need to back at late night when I need to do closing, I need to work extra hour till night when I have event. So, mak pesan kat aku untuk cari kerja lain. But I still don't want because I still wanna enjoy my work. Finally I resign because keadaan tak mengizinkan. Since my mum sakit, always admitted at hospital, So, aku nak jaga dia, and ikut semua cakap dia. Makanya aku ambil keputusan resign when I got another offered job. I work there for 2 years. Honestly, I love Aeon, but I love my mom more than my career there.

Then bermulalah perjalanan career yang baru di company kecil at Glenmarie as Sales coordinator. The environment is not so good since the boss is not Malaysian, so memang dia fully utilized staff. Staff only 2 person at office. Gila tak gila kan? Aku mampu bertahan sebulan je sebab penat gila kena buat semua benda. So, I decided to resign without got any offer from other company. Beranikan diri berhenti sebab stress dengan environment, stress dengan boss, stress dengan jalan jem.

I think 2 month menganggur duduk umah, kemas rumah, masak untuk mak ayah, jaga anak buah, makan, tido. Dan hasilnya memang kegemokan berlaku. Mak pesan, pergilah cari kerja apa pon, biarlah gaji murah, tapi halal dan tak stress. Then I got offered at travel company as account clerk. Frankly speaking, aku tak ada perasaan malu pon untuk bekerja sebagai kerani eventhough I am degreeholder. That time aku pikir macamane nak bayar duit kereta kalau aku tak kerja kan. So, aku pergi jugak kerja tu sebab nak bayaq segala hutang walaupon gajinya sangtlah sikit. But, syukur alhamdulillah, walaupon gaji kecik, tapi rasa cukup je. Itulah orang cakap, kalau kerja kita ikhlas dan halal, in syaa allah ade keberkatannya. I work there for 7 month. I just thinking till when I should stay with the company yang tak ade career path. so, I'm seeking other job. Syukurlah dapat offer better.

Aku decide untuk accept offer from logistic company sebabnya they pay me so high as what I wanted. I work there for one month only sebab aku tak boleh pegi dengan environment yang buatkan aku stress jiwa dan raga. Kat situ aku kerja sebagai senior account assistant. What for you work with the messy person and make you pressure even your salary is high kan? So, aku beralih arah ke hotel industry since they offer me same like my present company offered me that time.

I move to my current employer now which is newbie hotel in Shah Alam. Now, I am account officer here which is I'm the pioneer one sebabnya before this the position is vacant. This hotel start operate since September 2015. Too new kan? makanya quite susah la kerja aku sebab semua nya aku yang kena set up and filing everything proper. Syukurlah kali ni aku rase bahagia sebab environment best, officemate baik-baik walaupon boss kat sini annoying gila, tapi aku still boleh bertahan sebab annoying dia pon, dia sebenarnya baik. 

In conclusion, whatever position you hold, either there give you high or low salary, that's not really important. Yang paling penting kita selesa, kita suka kerja kita, kita ada environment yang baik, tu semua yang paling penting. Just do whatever you love even some people akan pandang sinis dengan kerjaya you, do I care? Tak pernah nak kisah apa yang orang nak cakap. Aku dah lalui macam-macam kerjaya dari pelbagai industri with different position. Pernah rase kesusahan, pernah rasa keperitan kerja. Tapi tu semua sementara. You will get the best one after you through the complicated things. 

Even now my mum not here, but I still satisfied with what I'm doing now. Before she gone, she really wanna me have the office hour job, weekend available, dapat coti raya, and she wanna me to not back so late, not so night like previously. I wish you proud of what I have now, mak. I always miss and love you so much till the end of my life. You are my inspiration, you sacrificed so many things for your family, mak sanggup jadi surirumah hanya kerana ingin membesarkan anak-anak menjadi insan yang berguna. Mak sanggup batalkan niat nak sambung study taking medic course just because she want to take a good care of her children. Betapa besarnya pengorbanan mak sebagai ibu kami dunia dan akhirat. 

Semoga mak tenang di Sana. Al-Fatihah.

-The End-

Once you fail, doesn't means you are fail forever

Assalamualaikum

Once you fail doesn't mean you are fail forever..

I already faced the worst thing ever that is I am failed in a relationship before I met my fiance. Rasanya tak perlu bercerita lebih detail how broke my heart, how hate I am with that person, how cruel he is. Biarlah ini semua jadi kenangan yang takkan pernah aku lupa sebab ianya terlalu sakit. 

That time I feel so loser but not give up. Suddenly come someone who really kind hearted person yang sudi ada dengan aku, dengar semua cerita sedih aku yang tragis ni. Bukan setakat menjadi pendengar setia, tapi beliau lah yang bagi semangat and kata-kata positive untuk aku move on. We know each other through facebook since 2011 but never meet up since I don't trust people. But one day terbuka pintu hati untuk bagi peluang nak kenal dengan Encik Tunang ni. Syukurlah first blind date kami ni adelah permulaan yang baik.

Once I'm comfort with some people, I will hang out again with that person. Makanya kami pon spend time together again just a friend hangout. One day he ask me to meet his parents and I'm agreed. Thank you dear fiance sebab you take a fast action, within 3 month kita kenal you dah introduced me at your family as 'future girlfriend' bak kata ibu you.

Then you said to me "kalau ada jodoh, I nak masuk meminang end of this year". And yes you prove it. I saw your effort in this short period. That's why I never doubt to accept you as my future husband since I am so comfort with you. I thought I don't have anyone to care of me after my plan to getting married is failed before you come. Allah itu maha adil. Dia mengambil seseorang daripada kita dan menggantikan yang lebih baik. So girls, please dont give up if you fail in relationship. Trust in Allah's test. Everything happened with the beautiful and perfect reason.

Someone just left me for no reason, the other person come to me for many reason to colour my life. Thank you so much Mr. Fiance for everything. Let's we counting the days to our big day soon. You are the best men after my dad and brothers. Muahciked!

-The End-

Engagement Day Cik Wani

Assalamualikum 

On 6 December 2015 is the day which is I am officially engaged with someone. We only have 3 weeks preparation for this ceremony. His family comes to my house to discuss just a little bit about to further this relationship. They comes on 14 November 2015 which is 1 week after my birthday. And this is the best ever present to me for this year. At first we planned just nak datang merisik end of this year, but both side decide to getting engaged terus.

Dais deco by me and my sister. Just a simple mini pelamin.

 

Make up paling cepat. Take only 1 hour. but hasilnya sangat mengagumkan.

Thank you ayah for approving me to have one step closer. I love you King.

Dup dap dup dap. This is the feeling masa semua orang focus kat kita. Thanks mother in law to be for your kindness.

Abang-abang kacak ni boyfriends I since I was born. Thank you brother for helping me in whatever situation. Tiada dalam gambar: my only little brother sebab dia busy siapkan assignment dia.

Bersama orang-orang kuat majlis. My lovely sisters, completed 6 of us. Thank you so much!

And... Thanks darling Quraisya for make me gorgeous on my E-day. I love your touched so much!

Just imagine how I managed to make it perfectly. Finally it becomes much better than what I expected. This is exceed my expectation. Terima kasih kepada semua yang datang untuk membantu and sokong saya sebagai sahabat. Thanks too bestfriends sebab sudi ada dengan aku sentiasa ups and downs. A million of thanks to families, relatives, friends, and also my beautiful MUA. I love you everyone!

Oh by the way, barang-barang pelamin tu semua beli within 1 week. For those who wanna have simple mini pelamin, you can rent the items dengan I. I sewa kan murah-murah saja. What for you spend RM300 or more than that for your mini pelamin just for 1 day? Tak worth kan. So, I offered you the price lower than that. Hand flower tu pon include if you amek pakej dengan I. 

Last but not least, doakan segalanya berjalan dengan lancar. Doakan yang baik-baik. Terima kasih again to everyone! Thanks too Encik Tunang sebab apa yang you cakap, you tunaikan. I love you!

-The End-